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Now You

Know

We are surrounded by wars, crimes, bullies, dictators, Karens, and Kens who are stuck sad, mad, messy. Then there’s you. Stuck in the middle of it all. Faced with the uncomfortable truth, everyone is on the broken needs spectrum.

We are surrounded by wars, crimes, bullies, dictators, Karens, and Kens who are stuck sad, mad, messy. Then here’s you. Stuck in the middle of it all. Faced with the uncomforable truth it’s because everyone is on a spectrum of broken needs.

Now You

NO

If Villains take from people, then the world needs ways to move people toward the things they need. It needs a different way. A model to follow to help people know they’re not alone, that they can be understood, and capable to manage the challenging moment's life brings. To see it for what it can become.

Killers

Criminals

Conmen

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Using Peoples Needs Against Them

There is a kind of person who is efficient at using peoples needs against them. They have developed a remarkable ability to study what is most important to a person, see their weaknesses and use it against them. Their lives are filled with gaslighting, half-truths, scamming, scheming, demeaning, and threats. With the goal of making others afraid of them. The study people, read them, get to know them, build relationships with the one goal to find what is important to them, what they need, and use it against them. It's their mode of operation often fueled for needing power. And they want it all. They are Terrorists, Tyrants, Teases and Terrorists, weaponizing needs to push their agenda. They will bomb, hijack, take hostages, and down buildings knowing humans have physcial, safety, love, and esteem needs. They will take peoples needs away to get whatever it is they need. 

 

There is another modus aperandi for some who have develped a rare skill to appear competent and in control. To mimic confidence that is so believable it's contagious. It's believable. They lead you to believe they have a rare ability.  They are so believablable they get their name from their prefered weapon. Confidence. And they are called Con Men. They lead pyramid schemes, scams, one sided deals and use negotiation tactics designed to break a person down. Peer pressure, guilt, exploit your friendship, make you feel sorry for them, make fake promises, and gaslight. Their compliments feel real and their promises seem honest. They are usually very charasmatic, attractive, to draw you in and then using your love and belonging need against you. These people are supremely good at using peoples needs against them. It's what they do best.